The kindergarten graduation ceremony is one of the most memorable milestones in life—after all, we can only be six years old once. As we grow up and move through the education system, we mature into young adults who become less dependent on family. Watching your child graduate from university later in life is a completely different experience, filled with a sense of pride in their achievements.
Kandon, however, missed his kindergarten graduation due to COVID restrictions. It was a disappointment he struggled to move past. So, when the opportunity came for Mindon to experience his graduation this year, we eagerly embraced it. Watching his little body walk confidently across the stage to receive his scroll was a moment of joy. Sadly, despite much persuasion, Kandon chose not to attend the ceremony.
Reflecting on my own childhood, I remember that kindergarten graduations were much simpler. I was dressed in a mortarboard and gown, only to take a photo. I still vividly recall that my socks were mismatched—one up, one down. That embarrassing portrait remains tucked away in my photo album. There were no grand performances or scroll presentations back then, just a modest celebration.
Many people comment on how tough the Singapore education system is. But I think it’s more about perspective. There are countless resources and support systems available to help students succeed. With effort and determination, most can do well in life. However, taking things for granted and expecting success without hard work is like waiting for a ship that may never come. Success comes to those who embrace the journey and put in the work.
